Did you ever stop to think about the cost of lies? 

It's huge.

Recently, I watched the new HBO mini-series about Chernobyl, and I was very impressed with the way they told that story.

I remember in 1986 the world stopped because of the Chernobyl disaster. I was eight years old and knew that a power plant had exploded in the Soviet Union, and that the people who lived in the area were killed and many in the surrounding areas  were still in danger.

About a year later, something similar happened in Goiania, which is very close to my hometown, Brasilia. It was not as huge in scale, but it still considered one of the top 10 worst radioactive disasters in the world.

Politically, the way the mini-series tells the Chernobyl story, a power plant exploded because

there were too many lies in the system.

Symbolically, even the political leaders there admitted that the Chernobyl disaster was an omen or \indication that the Soviet system was dissolving.

The reason why I bring this up today as an analogy is because of the cost of lies in families, and how

lies create "nuclear power plants" throughout generations that will eventually explode.

I see this very clearly in people's lives at Ranova.

The more we lie, the more we create a "black hole" that sucks life energy dry. What  accumulates in that black hole will eventually explode - not in our lives, in future generations.

In a constellation perspective, in my research and experience, and in the verification of thousands of practitioners in the world, we are responsible for what happens in the next generations. 

The more we lie in our lives, the more future generations will pay for it.

What is considered a lie in the family soul?

Because the family soul only understands the Truth, and can only discern the truth from what is not true.

Whatever is not aligned with the truth will be seen as a wound in the family system, or as a "power plant" that will explode sooner or later.

It won't explode in our generation and our lives, but in the future generations, especially the grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

This is why some Native American cultures say 

what you do today will ripple-effect in the seventh generation after you.

They will reap what we sow.

We don't see the structural results of our actions

according to these Native American traditions, and this is why we should lead an impeccable life.

So whenever we lie, when we have family secrets and taboos, we don't talk about certain things and hide them, we are creating wounds or "power plants" that will explode eventually, like Chernobyl.

So what is the cost of lies in a family soul?

It's the cost of life.

Lies affect the happiness, fulfillment and even the health of family members in the next generations.

There is a price to pay for living in the Truth, and if many of us do not want to pay it, the consequences will snowball and it will be worse.

When we live in the Truth, we need to sacrifice something. 

We must sacrifice the control of our Egos, our self-importance and omnipotence, and the ego's need to control life. We must sacrifice our self-image of power, and admit our mistakes.

Instead of lying.

When we prefer lies, we're allowing the ego and our false image of power to prevail.

And in the process, we end up sacrificing life in its most beautiful manifestations of happiness, health and fulfillment.

Whenever there's a secret and a lie in the family,  there is a “Chernobyl” waiting to explode.

We suffer the consequences of the shortcomings of generations before us -

not to blame our ancestors for what they knew nothing about,

but this is true regardless of any person's individual consciousness.

If our family holds secrets, taboos and lies in past generations, we are either not as happy as we could be because we feel unconsciously guilty about being happy when our ancestors weren't.

Secrets and lies drag the soul down, and though it is not our individual experience, we inherit an unconscious memory that is passed on through the DNA. Even if we can't put our finger on it because it's not official information,

we feel the weight of lies in our souls. Unconsciously, something just does not allow us to be happy.

Whenever lies are present, there are also fulfillment issues. We choose paths that are not our soul's calling. We are never really fulfill our dreams, because there just isn't enough life energy for that. Secrets and lies and are like Chernobyl, remember?

And the worst consequence of all is when the secret or lie is very serious, and children in future generations develop diseases. Lies affect the DNA, and in the worst cases, they cause genetic disorders, and cellular imbalance.

If we keep lying it will eventually affect our health, and/or the health of our descendants.

As the character of Valery Legasov, chief of the commission investigating the Chernobyl Disaster in the series said,

"We are on dangerous ground (...) because of our secrets and our lies. when the truth offends we lie, and lie until we can no longer remember it is even there, but it is. Still there.

Every lie we tell incurs a debt to the truth - sooner or later, that debt is payed.

That is how an RBMK reactor explodes - LIES.

And when lies serve the ego, we prefer them".

This is why the character goes on saying:

"To be a scientist is to be naive. We are so focused on our search for truth we fail to consider how few actually want us to find it. But it is always there". 

So to wrap it up, being impeccable and living in the truth pays off.

It is the only key to true happiness. No real joy can exist when we lie. 

Another Native American principle says

the truth heals, protects and brings peace always.

We protect the next generations from pain and turmoil and from the explosion of a “Chernobyl” in the family soul.

So what is the cost of lies?

Happiness, health and fulfillment.

Living in the truth is what we should be doing as an example for the future generations. We will also be doing our part in healing what our ancestors knew nothing about, and we must do it with love in our hearts.

In our ancestors' generation, people in the western world had no emotional education and knew nothing about the generational consequences of lies.

Lying was a habit. It was part of the culture.

But in the 21st century, it's our turn to make this right and realign the energy of our lives.

Watch the HBO "Chernobyl" mini-series and then watch this talk about the logic behind family souls to understand what we've just been discussing on a deeper level.

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Paola.